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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 11:51 am

sprintcyclist wrote:Is this a supervised access visit of her to his place?

No, unsupervised access visit at play centre in Ballarat.

She refused to stay unless I stayed too.

She was expecting his parent's to be here, and had they been, I would happily have left because I had arranged to meet a friend for lunch.

My daughter has sensory issues, is afraid of toilets flushing sounds and hand dryers, had I left her here and or tried to leave she wouldn't have stayed.

Im sitting well back from them enjoying their time together, he's constantly recording her via cam corder, I don't have a problem with this other than he is not being natural, seems to be more about what his interaction with her looks like on video.
Mechanical, un relaxed.


I'm not interfering, just sitting with my head down on my phone..

If she needs to use the bathroom. I'm here.

Hopefully he understands.
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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 11:51 am

We'll be here until 2pm
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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 11:57 am

When he arrived 15 mins early, and noticed we were already here, I waved to him and said hi, from several metres away ( for the benefit of my daughter) however he ignored me.

He should have at least waved back because not doing so tells our daughter we aren't on speaking terms.



This isn't fair on her.
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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 12:03 pm

At the end of the day, she's spending quality time with her daddy as per court order, and she's safe and feeling comfortable knowing I'm here if she needs to use the bathroom.

This is what matters.

I'm guessing he'll not be happy I've stayed.


My little girl wouldn't have stayed if I hadn't, as she's not comfortable being alone with him yet.

Toileting being one reason.
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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 12:05 pm

I'm praying we can both cooperate in her best interests.

It's about her, not us.
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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 12:07 pm

Hoping that he responds positively and respects my reasons for staying.
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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 12:38 pm

She wanted to see her daddy and wanted me to stay.
I made a snap decision.
Wondering if legal wise I should have cancelled the visit when she said she didn't want me to leave.
Then she would have melted down because regardless of what's happened, she loves her father and really wanted to see him, just wanted me in the wings.

Praying his parents are with him next visit.
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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 12:41 pm

I really am just trying to do my best.

Will it be enough

God only knows.
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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by sprintcyclist » Sat Apr 21, 2018 12:57 pm

Breathe deep and slowly.
Ensure your torso expands and contracts fully, as though it were a barrel.
Breathe into your heart
Right Wing is the Natural Progression.

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Re: Lexicon reports

Post by mellie » Sat Apr 21, 2018 5:41 pm

I absolutely agree.

Anyway, was an uneventful access visit, things went well.

Hoping we can cooperate and compromise in future to ensure the best outcomes for our precious girl.

Told u god had our backs.

Don't know what u were all worried about honestly.


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